How to Change Your Driver's License in Oklahoma After Marriage

Just got married in Oklahoma and taking your spouse's last name? Updating your driver's license at the DPS is one of the first things to check off. In Oklahoma, your certified marriage certificate is the legal document that lets you change your name — no court order required. Here's exactly how to do it.

Before you go: update your Social Security card first

Wait until your new Social Security card arrives before you go — the DPS needs it and cross-checks your SSA record.

How to change your name at the Oklahoma DPS, step by step

  1. Find your nearest DPS at this link: bit.ly/oklocations Review the appointment options for your chosen location
  2. Gather the documents listed below.
  3. Visit your local DPS with your required documents and pay the license fee

What to bring

  • Current driver's license
  • U.S. passport or birth certificate
  • Your new Social Security card
  • Certified copy of your marriage certificate (or divorce decree)
  • Proof of Oklahoma residency (two documents showing your name + address)

You will need to provide two printed documents proving you live in Oklahoma. The proof documents must include your name and address (PO Boxes don't count). Proof examples: utility bill, credit card statements, paycheck, apartment lease, etc. - to customize a document checklist, visit this link: bit.ly/okrealidchecklist

REAL ID

REAL IDs are required for air travel as of May 2025, the below instructions reflect the required steps to apply for a REAL ID

Good to know

  • A license fee is collected at your appointment (verify the current amount on the official Oklahoma DPS site).
  • You can update your vehicle registration during the same visit.
  • Oklahoma also allows you to register to vote while at the DPS, so we recommend knocking that out while you're there too.

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