How to Hyphenate Your Last Name After Marriage

The best of both worlds. 

Hyphenating your last name after marriage is a great way to keep your maiden name, but also showcase your husband's last name. The legal process for changing your name varies by state, so it’s essential to understand the specific laws and requirements where you live before making the switch.

Check Your State’s Name Change Laws

Each U.S. state has different rules for how you can change your name after marriage. Some states allow you to hyphenate your last name directly on your marriage certificate, making the process straightforward. Others require a court order if you wish to create a new hyphenated last name. Here’s how to determine what applies in your state:

• Visit Your State’s Marriage License Office Website
  Most state or county clerk websites have a section on marriage name changes. Look for any mention of whether hyphenation is allowed as part of the marriage certificate process. Pro tip: check this database to read more about your specific state marriage laws.

• Call or Visit Your Local Clerk’s Office
  If the website isn’t clear, speaking with a clerk in person or over the phone can clarify whether you need extra steps, such as filing a petition with the court.

• Review Your State’s DMV & Social Security Office Requirements
  Some states require that your marriage certificate explicitly shows your new hyphenated name before allowing updates to your driver’s license or Social Security records. Others may accept your marriage certificate as general proof of a name change, regardless of whether the new name appears on the document.

• Check If a Court Order is Necessary
  In states that do not allow automatic name changes through marriage, you may need to file a name change petition in court. This process usually involves:

  • Submitting a legal name change form
  • Publishing a public notice (in some cases)
  • Attending a brief court hearing for approval
    

Middle Names

If you're interested in changing your middle name or replacing your middle name with your maiden name, you'll still want to check with your state marriage laws to see what is allowed and if you'll need a court order.

Making Your Decision

Once you confirm your state’s requirements, you can confidently move forward with your name change. Whether your state allows a simple marriage certificate update or requires additional legal steps, understanding the process in advance will save you time and headaches.

Pop the champagne, let's hyphenate your last name.