How to Change Your Driver's License in North Dakota After Marriage
Just got married in North Dakota and taking your spouse's last name? Updating your driver's license at the DOT is one of the first things to check off. In North Dakota, your certified marriage certificate is the legal document that lets you change your name — no court order required. Here's exactly how to do it.
Before you go: update your Social Security card first
Wait until your new Social Security card arrives before you go — the DOT needs it and cross-checks your SSA record.
How to change your name at the North Dakota DOT, step by step
- Find your nearest DOT and make an appointment (required) at this link: bit.ly/ndappt
- Gather the documents listed below.
- Visit your local DOT with your required documents & pay the license fee
What to bring
- Current driver's license
- U.S. passport or birth certificate
- Your new Social Security card
- Certified copy of your marriage certificate (or divorce decree)
- Proof of North Dakota residency (two documents showing your name + address)
You will need to provide two printed documents proving you live in North Dakota. The proof documents must include your name and address (PO Boxes don't count). Proof examples: utility bill, credit card statements, paycheck, apartment lease, etc. - a full list of acceptable proof documents is included in your name change kit
REAL ID
REAL IDs are required for air travel as of May 2025, the below instructions reflect the required steps to apply for a REAL ID
Good to know
- A license fee is collected at your appointment (verify the current amount on the official North Dakota DOT site).
- You can update your vehicle registration during the same visit.
Skip the guesswork
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